There are lots of ways to get your guy heated up and ready for some fun. Wait, never mind – most guys are always heated up and ready for sex. Let’s rephrase that.
Finger blowjobs are an excellent type of foreplay that will both excite him and slow him down. They’ll turn him on but distract him from the main event – at least for a short period of time.
What Is A Finger Blowjob?
A finger blowjob is basically the same as a traditional blowjob, but using a finger instead of a penis. So, less of a choking hazard.
You use your mouth and your tongue to tease and excite him. You can make it quick and dirty or you can draw it out as long as you want. You’re in control and as long as you have his finger or thumb in your mouth he’ll happily let you have control.
How To Give A Stellar Finger Blowjob
A good finger blowjob really depends on the opinion of the person who is getting the blowjob. How things go down (ya, pun intended!) depends on what turns him on and what doesn’t
Think about it – there’s no one perfect way to give a standard blowjob. Some men like teeth and some want all tongue. Yet others are looking for the perfect deep throat.
One thing to remember is this: when you are giving him a finger blowjob, he’s not only thinking about how good it feels but he’s thinking about how good it is going to feel when your mouth is on his cock. And know that if you give him a finger blowjob, he’s going to want the other kind of blowjob later!
Here are some tips that most men will agree make finger blowjobs a fun way to get the night started:
- Go slow. Or don’t. Try different paces and see what gets the biggest reaction. Try a combination of slow and fast.
- Go deep. Or don’t. You’ll have to try a few different depths to find out which works best for him.
- Listen. If you want to know what he likes best, listen for the moans and sighs of pleasure. And if he says something like, “Oh God, don’t stop…” you know you’ve got it right.
- After he’s had a shower is the best time to give a finger blowjob. You won’t have to worry about where his hands have been and what he’s been touching all day long.
- Trimmed nails are good. Your mouth is susceptible to infections and a cut from a sharp nail can take a long time to heal with all that moisture and bacteria.
- Move your tongue in different ways. You can try licking with the tip of your tongue or lay your tongue flat against his finger as you suck. Swirl your tongue around his finger or the tip. Flicker your tongue back and forth. There are lots of different ways that you can use your tongue to get a rise out of him (yes, another pun!).
- Keep control. This is your show. If he reaches out to fondle you with his other hand, stop him by taking his hand in yours and holding it away from your body. Or, if you want a little fun while you’re focusing on him, you could always direct his hand to where you want it. But remember, half of the fun of giving a finger blowjob is focusing on his pleasure and taking control of it.
- Get naked. He’s likely not expecting you to be naked for something as innocent as a finger blowjob, but if you get naked trust that he will be even more in love with you than he has ever been before. Letting him gaze upon your naked body while you direct your attention on him will drive him wild.
- Tie him up if he can’t help trying to take over. Seriously. It doesn’t have to become a whole Fifty Shades type of thing but some scarves and a bed frame can go a long way to reminding him that he’s got to give up the control if he wants the pleasure.
- Talk to him as you’re sucking his fingers. Tell him what is going to come next, what you’d like to do to him, and what you’re going to let him do to you. This is a great time to let him know exactly what you like and what you expect once you decide to let him do what he wants.
- Look at him. There’s nothing that will drive him wilder than seeing you look up at him, eyes half lowered, his finger in your mouth, and the look of lust on your face.
- Moan. When you moan, it causes vibrations that will make his brain explode.
- Be prepared for more. If you give a man a finger blowjob he’s not going to want to go back to playing video games. The only games he’s going to want to play are naked games with you. So, if you start with the finger blowjob, don’t expect that to be enough to satisfy him. The only thing stopping at the finger blowjob will do is give him blue balls. So, this isn’t to say that you have to give up the goods, but know he’s going to be a little frustrated if you get up and thank him for a fun time and then go home!
Finger blowjobs are a great way to have a little fun that is outside the norm. It’s not exactly kinky but there are definitely some guys who have a fetish for it. You might not want to do it all the time (although, who knows, you might) but it adds variety and spice to your sex life and might get the two of you talking about other things you’d like to try.
Finger blowjobs are fun. Even if you end up getting the giggles and it doesn’t take you anywhere, it’s something you have to try at least once!
