We’ve all seen a woman blush and when she does it’s the most amazing thing to look at, isn’t it? When a girl is blushing she seems more youthful. She’s more appealing and more attractive to every man in the room.
But why? What does it mean when a girl is blushing and why are men so into it? And most importantly, how can you make her blush and make her feel good?
Why Do Women Blush?
It’s important to remember that blushing can mean several things and not all of them are positive.
The kind of blushing that attracts men is generally a good thing. Her cheeks redden slightly. She looks down and then looks up from under her eyelashes and you feel this swelling of emotion and attraction for her.
She’s usually blushing because of something you did or said. Maybe she’s shy or perhaps you said something that hit close to home. A woman who is blushing like this might feel excited or even a little aroused. And that is an amazing thing to see.
Blushing can also be a sign of discomfort or embarrassment or even shame though. Some men think this is the same thing as the first type of blushing. They’ll go out of their way to say or do things that cause her to blush in this way and they will think it means the same thing. It’s not a compliment though.
You should never try to make a woman blush in a manner that causes her shame or embarrassment. Dirty jokes, compliments disguised as insults, and rude comments can make a woman blush but it is not a favorable type of blush and it is not a sign that she’s into you.
How Can You Make Her Blush?
When a woman blushes it often means that there’s an attraction between the two of you. It can be like a game the two of you play and if you do it right, she’ll look forward to it.
The key is to make her blush in a good way. If you’re not careful, she might become uncomfortable around you and her blushing may have a negative connotation.
If you want to make a woman blush, be sensitive to her emotions and how you are really making her feel. You don’t want her to think you’re trying to make her feel foolish. Don’t offend her. Play with her. And play should always be fun.
Here are a few ways you can make a girl blush and make her want more.
Teasing is one of the most fun ways to make a girl blush. You might tease her about something cute she does, like the way she plays with her hair or bites her lips. You could say something like, “If you keep biting your lip like that I might have to find a way to distract you.”
When you tease, you’re calling out the fact that the things she does makes her more attractive to you. You’re making her aware that you notice her and that she’s appealing to you. Teasing is not meant to embarrass. Only to subtly suggest that she might be doing things purposefully to get your attention – and that it is working!
Men and women love to flirt and if she’s not expecting it, flirting can make her blush. The best way to flirt with her is to do it in a manner that only the two of you will notice. Mirroring can be a form of flirting. If she’s touching her face, do the same thing. If she’s licking her lips, lick your lips in the same manner.
Some mean forget that flirting is not sexual. If you cross the line from flirting (showing interest in her) to making sexual innuendo, you run the risk of embarrassing or offending her so keep flirting subtle and friendly.
#3 Make Eye Contact
Eye contact is always a good way to show a woman that you’re interested in her. But if you want to make her blush, just extend your eye contact a few seconds longer than you normally would.
Just before you look away, smile, as if the two of you had some sort of secret. She’ll be curious about what you are thinking. If you do it right, she’ll blush a little, look away shyly, and then come back for more.
Pretty women are used to getting compliments so if you want to use this technique to make her blush, you’ll need to be a little bit creative. Find ways to compliment her that other people wouldn’t think of. You might compliment the way she moves, the delicacy of her hands, or her voice.
When you compliment her on things that she’s not used to people noticing, it tells her that you are paying attention beyond typical attraction. It suggests that you’re really into her and that is likely to cause a pleasant blush to rise to her cheeks.
Remember that blushing is not something you want to see her do because she’s uncomfortable around you. If you make her blush you want it to be because she realizes that you’re attracted to her…and she likes it!