25 Places To Have Sex And Eliminate Sexual Boredom

One of the things married couples and people in monogamous relationships complain about when it comes to sex is boredom. When you’re with someone for a long time, sexual boredom is something that can totally kill your sex life.

It’s easy to understand why couples in monogamous relationships can get bored. You learn what your partner likes and what gets them off quickly so a lot of the time, you just go straight to that. 

Because you know what to do to make the orgasm, you might be tempted to skimp on the foreplay or completely stop doing new things. 

In addition, sex in relationships almost always takes place in the bedroom. And it doesn’t get more boring than that. Sure, you can light some candles or use aromas to change it up a bit but there’s only so much you can do to make bedroom sex interesting.

That’s not to say that sex always needs to be wild and crazy and new. There’s a certain appeal to the comfort of sex with the same person, in the same room, and with the standard routine that you know will make you come. 

But always? Never anything new? For the rest of your life? Sorry. But no one wants to eat the same kind of cereal every single day out of the same bowl for the rest of their lives. So, why would you want the same kind of sex in the same room for the rest of your life?

How To Know If You’re Suffering From Sexual Boredom

Sometimes, people just think it has something to do with them and it doesn’t occur to them that their relationship might be struggling with sexual boredom. Your partner might even dismiss the idea.

The truth is, there’s no specific definition of sexual boredom, as far as science is concerned. It’s not a term you are likely to find in a research magazine or used by psychologists. 

If you find yourself suffering from these symptoms though (or your partner is), you might be dealing with sexual boredom in your relationships:

• Low sexual libido; you’re just not interested in sex.
• Increased masturbation; you’re not looking for pleasure. You just want to release some stress.
• Thinking about, or actually cheating on your spouse/partner.
• Watching more porn (or reading more erotica).
• When you do have sex, you don’t feel satisfied, even if you have an orgasm.
• It takes a lot more effort to get aroused enough to get you interested in having sex.

A great way to vary up your routine and eliminate sexual boredom is to find some variety in the location. 

7 Places To Have Sex At Home

Ready to get rid of sexual boredom? Start at home. Try having sex in these parts of your home.

1. In the kitchen – there are loads of places that are perfect for a little sexual naughtiness in your kitchen. Try the kitchen table, the counter, the island, a chair, or heck, even the floor! 
2. The laundry room – never noticed those awesome vibrations the washer and dry give off? There’s a reason why sex on the washing machine is a bit of a housewife cliche! Try it for yourself. It might become your favorite place for a quickie!
3. The shower – if you haven’t been having shower sex, you’re missing out. Shower sex doesn’t have to be awkward and uncomfortable. Check out our guide for shower sex!
4. The living room – if you’re a fan of getting comfortable, what else do you need besides a nice soft couch or a big armchair with lots of padding? Leave the blinds open so you can see out but no one can see in and it will be even more exciting!
5. The garage – park the car, close the door, and have passionate sex on the hood of the car or standing up and leaning over the workbench. No one will ever work on a project in the garage again without remembering your naughty fun!
6. The hallway – if you’re coming home from an event and you happen to be feeling a little sexy, why wait until you get to the bedroom to rip each other’s clothes off? Turn off the light and get dirty right there behind the front door!
7. On the deck, porch, patio, or balcony – this is a great transition to outdoor sex. If your backyard has enough privacy no one will ever see. Even if you have neighbors, just turn off all the lights and keep it quiet. The excitement will definitely get you worked up!

5 Places To Have Sex On Vacation

If you’re going on vacation, even just an inexpensive day trip, this is a great opportunity to find some new places to get it on.

1. Hotel room sex – this is simple and easy but let’s be real...hotel room sex is always more interesting than having sex at home. Order in some room service, put on a sexy movie, and you’re bound to start wanting to get amorous with your partner.
2. Rooftop sex – it’s late at night and no one is around and you’re enjoying the view from the rooftop. Find a secluded corner and have a quickie for a good time.
3. A secluded beach – if you’re at the ocean or lake, look for a secluded beach, lay down a blanket, and spend some one on one time together. And if you end up naked…go with it.
4. In a jacuzzi or pool – you might need to pay someone off to get a little private time but it can totally be done. Hotel staff are often eager to make a little extra cash. Alternatively, you could pay a little extra to get the room with the private jacuzzi. Don’t think you’re partner won’t show their appreciation privately.
5. In front of the fire – take advantage of the fireplaces that are included in many winter escapes. Lay down some soft blankets and let the fire warm you up. Then get heated with some sexy times!

10 Places to Have Sex Outside

Outdoor sex is sure to spice things up and break you out of your sexual rut. There are so many options! You don’t have to take the risk of getting caught but sometimes that’s pretty hot! Check out some of these ideas for places you can have sex in the great outdoors.

1. In a tent – you don’t even have to really like camping to take advantage of this idea. Set up a tent in your backyard, if you’re not into camping. That way you can head back inside to shower and clean up and climb into your nice warm bed. But if you’re an outdoorsy kind of person, pack up the tent and find a nice secluded spot to set up and get frisky.
2. By a lake – find yourself a nice quiet lake and pack up some picnic food and hike until you aren’t seeing people anymore. Then find a nice soft place to lay a blanket and let the sun warm your skin while you make love to the sound of lapping waves.
3. By the ocean – when you go to the beach there are always lots of secret little places that are secluded and perfect for a romp in the dunes. Make sure you are far enough away from other people that no one will stumble across you though!
4. In a pool – rent an AirBnB with a pool or offer to housesit for a friend who has a pool. Turn off the outside lights and let the water caress your skin. Soon you’ll be feeling sexy as your wet skin slides across your partner’s!
5. In the garden – if you have a beautiful garden with lots of lush vegetables or trees, this can be a great spot for a little afternoon delight. If the middle of the day is too risky for you, creep out in the middle of the night and have a good time!
6. At the golf course – you might not want to drop your drawers in the middle of the green but most golf courses have trees surrounding the course. What would happen if you lost your ball in the trees and you both had to go and look for it and then got lost in each other?
7. In the car wash – how fast can you get each other off? Even if only one of you is getting all the attention it can be a great prelude to something you can continue after the car is clean and you go home.
8. On a boat – it’s pretty easy to find a spot on a lake where there are no other boaters. And even if someone comes flying by in a speedboat, they are unlikely to even notice what’s going on. Keep your ears alert for boats that are going slow but otherwise, you can have a great outdoor sex experience on a boat with the waves to rock you back and forth naturally.
9. At a rest stop – when you’re driving somewhere late at night and you have to stop for a break at a rest stop, this might be a great time for some sexy fun. Pull the car over to a secluded spot. Rest stops often have picnic tables or benches. As long as they are under direct light, no one will ever know.
10.  In the back of a truck in the middle of a field – if you have a truck, pack up some blankets and pillows and go star gazing. With all those stars and no one else around, it’s bound to give the two of you some ideas. 

3 Places To Have Sex At Work

If you or your partner have been working a lot lately, you might have to get creative and take your sex life to the workplace. Most buildings have lots of little secluded corners and rooms where you can have a quickie without getting caught. Try some of these places for a fun rendezvous with your lover.

1. Work bathrooms – find the most secluded bathroom, the one no one ever uses because it’s so far away or too small or too dark. Lock the door and get out of the least amount of clothing possible so you can get down to business at your business.
2. The storage room – pick a day when there aren’t many people around if you can. Most storage rooms have locks though, so lock the door and get to it.
3. Your office – if you have an office, this is the perfect place to get down and dirty. Have one of you play the boss and the other the assistant who is desperate for approval. Clear off the desk and have some fun.

Get Creative

This is a great exercise to do with your partner if you’re going through a sexually slow phase in your relationship. Sit down and make a list together. 

You don’t have to actually go through with everything on your list. Just have some fun trying to come up with the wildest and most bizarre places you could have sex. It will have you both laughing and there’s a good chance that you’ll get turned on and end up having sex right there in whatever room you’re in.

Once you are done having fun, get serious and talk about which places you’d actually like to try. Maybe you could create a bucket list of places where you’d like to have sex during your lifetime. If you’re making a bucket list (or if you’d prefer, a fuck-et list!), go for the gusto and write down places you can discover together and find new and interesting places to have sex.

Sex should never be boring and routine. It can be quiet and comforting but it should always be something you look forward to. If you’re not at the stage of sexual boredom yet, you can prevent yourself from getting there by talking about it and planning for things you can do to avoid it as a couple.